Well...
* Because all Russian nuclear arsenal is composed of modern, last-generation missiles, with minimal reaction time and improved hardening.
* Because more than a half of Russian ICBM are road-mobile rather than silo-based, and thus far less vulnerable to pre-emptive strikes.
* Because our last-generation road-mobile missiles are MIRV'ed.
* Because Russia still have heavy ICBM with significant payload, capable of deploying a large number of warheads, pen-aids and decoys (including heavy decoys, capable of fooling terminal defenses), and capable of using complex trajectories (including - if needed - semi-orbital ones).
* Because Russia have hypersonic glide warheads.
With all respect, but all US ballistic missile forces are relics of Cold War, with outdated and limited just about everything. Your land-based ICBM's are essentially a joke; they are not mobile, depend on limited number of battery control centers, could throw no more than 3 warheads (at the cost of not having any heavy pen-aids).