It's certainly debatable to call the T-75 the better striker, especially as it's one IWB down compared to the Su-57 and thus lacking behind it in the internal ordnance department, not like there is something better in it's category, the F-35 has rather limited internal carriage capabilities, especially with regards to the variety of munitions and the spectrum in which they operate.
But it certainly seems like you equate integrated EOTS with being a superior offensive asset, when the Su-57 posesses favorable kinematics in order to enter and leave a critical space under less risk while carrying more payload.
Yes, I think the presence of integral EOTS (=bomb sight, i.e., ability to effectively spot, track, idenitfy and mark targets under the plane with all benefits of the visual and IR band) instead of a targeting pod, together with likely a substantially lower signature, is decisive.
T-75 is also marketed (and we know that the eventual configuration was chosen for supersonic performance) as a supercruiser.
Finally, while the internal volume of Su-57 is certainly bigger, its ability to carry the preferred stand-in PG weapon of choice, which is KAB-250L, is equal. Both take 4 (KABs fit into fast bays).
The real difference is that T-75 will be cheaper to produce and operate while cutting down on raw stats and improving serviceability and improving on the low observable characteristics.
That's indeed the case - and in my opinion, the most basic trait of aircraft is when you can afford to send it on a mission.
This is non-binary(yes/no), and is tied to available fleet, consequences of loss, and economic weight(including pilots).
This is why, for instance, I dislike single-type F-35 fleets, pursued by smaller countries; what's attritable to the US/Israel, isn't really attritable for them. Can they even politically afford to lose a F-35 over enemy ground?
If no, and they can only really be used together with the US, then isn't that effectively a downgrade, despite all the capability of the bird?
Then there's production capability: T-75, beyond costs, is 1 engine, 1 radar, 1 EOTS, and EODAS (OLS-50M ball seems to be gone from the last model from Singapore). Su-57 is 2 engines, 4 x- arrays(with ~2 times TRM count), 3 OLS, EODAS and a targeting pod (likely closely linked to Sukhoi EOTS). That's a lot of stuff to produce, and a lot of abbreviations that the rest of VKS is thoroughly deprived of.
As for the VKS, the Su-34 and their operations. The Su-34 was designed a high speed precision strike platform, that's true, but it was also developed to fill the bomb truck shoes, taking on missions from both the Su-24 as well as the Su-25. The volume and frequency of munitions delivered speaks for itself, it's only operational shortcoming in this day and age is that it's not low observable platform, which makes it dependent on stand off range to reduce operational risk, but this applies to every non-stealth aircraft and actually aircraft in general, the harder you're to see and track the less likely it becomes you're getting shot at and successfully hit.
I'd say that the main operational shortcoming of Su-34 as it is, is that it takes 80/20 rule and turns it onto it's head.
It's full of theoretical "20%" capabilities, which don't really work and can't be used. Of all of those capabilities, the only one VKS managed to put to good use is a mighty central pylon, able to take a singular ~3.6t load (bomb+kit+pylon). It indeed works as a cookie bomber.
Other than that, su-34 instead works as a parcel delivery plane (4 bombs per sortie), for a very high maintenance cost and time. The same duty can be done by a much smaller plane, for no perceived downsides.
I once made a simple pencil calculation, that doing the same bombing VKS does today, but via J-10Cs instead of Su-34 (escorted by Su-35) saves so much, that the entire necessary order of J-10s will be fully covered by just 1 (one) year of savings. To become economically efficient attrition bomber, Su-34s have to start bringing either more bombs per sortie (which is not always feasible, as targets aren't under obligation to follow your sortie planning), or bring them to more consequential targets.