If all America ever did was launch the occasional GPS/weather-sat atop Delta II, you would have been perfectly fine with that.
Again, you don't know what you are talking about. I never said anything like that. Just another case of you spreading misinformation.
A. Larger payloads cost more. NASA started cost capping missions. This is one thing Golden did right. By keeping missions small, NASA could do more with less. That is why Delta II was great for NASA* and why there was a rebirth of the planetary and space science fields. More than 30 missions from 1995-2010 vs 6 Atlas II/V and 1 Titan IV. NASA still cost caps missions and they can fly on Falcon 9 with huge amounts of unused launch vehicle capability (TESS, IXPE, etc). NASA has received the budget for occasional flag ship missions. Cassini, MSL, M2020, JWST, Europa Clipper, PSP, etc. NASA was never limited by launch vehicle capability.
B. I have always said payload drives launch vehicle requirements. That has been the way since the early 1960's. Only our earliest satellites were designed around the capabilities of early launch vehicles. When payloads grew bigger, the launch vehicles were modified to increase performance (strap-on boosters, larger upper stages, stretched stages, uprated engines, etc) or they jumped to a larger launch vehicle class. SLS was done wrong. A rocket without a mission. The rocket came first and with a spacecraft designed for another rocket, we get the Artemis kluge missions.
c. BIig rockets are great if there is a requirement for them. And government doesn't have to be involved since most of the US Launch vehicle expertise now resides in industry and not with NASA. Starship exists because Musk has a requirement to go to Mars. New Glenn exists because Bezos wants to industrialize LEO. And the size is not as important as reducing costs has much as possible by going reusable. Size is not what opens up the heavens but low cost does. This is what the marketplace and industry wants and not what government "institutions" want. Government "institutions" want to spend money in many congressional districts as possible. SpaceX and Starship is the worse thing for Alabama because they leave out Marshall and Michoud and their contractors.
*that is more along the lines of what I said. You were the one that made the inane poll "Resolved: Delta II is a crutch". It just goes back to the lack of understanding the spaceflight industry and how cost matters more that launch vehicle performance.