This idea may sound stupid, but I wonder whether the following approach could be viable.
Imagine a assault gun weighing around 30 tons, armed with a main gun of less than 105 mm caliber, but still capable of efficiently engaging soft targets as well as APCs, armored vehicles, IFVs, and reconnaissance vehicles, while largely abandoning the ability to defeat main battle tanks.
In terms of protection, the first priority would be to equip as many sensors and air-defense weapons as possible, followed by armor that is as thick as feasible without becoming excessive.
Additionally, the vehicle should ideally be as inexpensive and easy to produce as possible.