For anyone who has lost someone recently....

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Over the years I have lost both family and friends. This morning my local Charity Shop found this beautifully illustrated book called Ida, always

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25785760-ida-always



It tells in pictures the story of a male Polar Bear nursing a sick female. It is naturally sad and tells of the pain of loss. It is based on the true lives of Polars in Zoos in the USA where the story is set.



I have always seen Life as a journey with many stops along the way and often diversions or even paths back. I discovered Polar Bears again (Pipaluk was born in London Zoo when I was a kid) with Antonia (a dwarf Polar at Zoom Gelsenkirchen) during a visit to Germany in Autumn 2006. From then until now they have been a crucial part of my life. For much of the journey my old mother Polar Bear, Ursula, was there for me. Her passing at the end of 2015 reminded me of the tender farewell of a keeper in Leipzig Zoo to his last Polar Bear. With no family, Ursula was my Last Polar Bear.



As I wrote at the top, I have been losing friends and family ever since I was at school when my Father's Mother died. Their faces and stories live with me. We lost a beloved German Shepherd Dog in those early years and have never replaced her. Now as the journey becomes a bit slower and less well organised I am grateful that my senses and memories remain sharp.



To everyone here who also know how hard the journey can be I hope you take a look at this book. Polar Bears are not just for Christmas
 
Sorrow shared is halved; joy shared is doubled

I lost both my parents when I was in my 30's....my lady friend Debra, too. Many friends.

I live alone now. The worst thing anyone does is to make someone love them --then die on them.

My parents were depression babies, the youngest. They adopted me later in life.....my childhood memories were of endless trips to hospitals, nursing homes, and funeral homes. Many discussions at the table about picking cotton until their hands bled...crushing poverty none of us escaped.

I myself am in ever-worsening health

As a lad, M*A*S*H's Hawkeye was my go-to when it came time to decompress....It should surprise no one here that Pierce was the fictional character I emulated the most, along with Jack Klugman's Quincy....the comic series CONCRETE.

William Windom is my spirit animal....all his roles involved a man at the end of his rope.

These days, it is Bosco Roy:
https://m.youtube.com/@Bosco-Roy-YT/videos

My goal now is to tell a few jokes, tweak a nose or two--but to otherwise take the worst parts of myself to the grave.

Never let anyone take your joy

Ted Turner
RIP
https://www.ms.now/opinion/ted-turner-cnn-founder-media-legacy
 
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