quite frankly a pickup is so much easier than hitching up the trailer.
True, but for the other 98% of my driving (and of most other peoples' driving too), like going to work, taking kids to appointments, getting groceries, etc. the smaller vehicle is often advantageous. And depending what you're moving, the trailer can be easier to load.
I had an F150 for a while, which I'd originally gotten cheap as a third vehicle for Lowe's runs. Most of the time driving it was a PITA. It sucked gas, drove and rode like [crap], and was a pain to park any time I had to go into town. Ironically, i never towed anything with that truck...
Eventually I sold it off and went back to small vehicle plus 5x8 trailer, which netted me a couple grand and saved me on insurance.
1/3 to 1/2 as much as a full sized SUV.
Loys of folks aren't interested in those, either.
It's a shame the small pickup mostly disappeared in the US. I'd happily drive an electric one if my commute got shorter.
And I never have towed with a front drive based crossover.
Done it a fair bit, actually. Mom's Escape pulled Dad's old sailboat (a little 13ft) around town just fine. Pretty much every car I owned other than my first (a 1993 Mustang) had a hitch available and I installed one.
And where would I bolt a hitch receiver on a car?
They make bolt-on receivers for just about everything. Lots of folks buy them just for mounting things like bike racks.
The Ford Focus is now extinct and I’m not sure they were ever rated to tow in North America. The only automatic transmission available for the last gen was a dry plate DCT that was invariably replaced under warranty by Ford. I really cannot imagine how that weak transmission would have stood up to hauling out at a boat ramp? But there again, you’re probably not an American and you were driving a Focus with a manual transmission?
Nope, I'm in the deep south US (Georgia) where the "full size" truck is ubiquitous. The first Focus (2003) was a manual and it pulled a 14ft sailboat from Atlanta to Savannah, as well as countless trips around town with a small utility trailer. I loved that car, but eventually it died and parts plus tools was going to cost more than the car had been worth.
The second had that DCT and my sister towed some with it before I bought it off her. Didn't keep it long though.
But keep in mind too, I'm talking small trailers grossing 2000lb or less loaded, not monstrosities needing gooseneck setups, brake controllers, and the like. And I'm rarely going more than 20 miles or so. Basic homeowner uses, essentially.
That said, my current ride (Model Y, which isn't really a crossover but rather a fat hatchback) is absolutely great for towing such things as long as you aren't going very far. Even then, I took my trailer (plus golf cart) and two UHaul trailers back from Savannah to Atlanta when we moved last year. It took a while, and it's not the vehicle I'd choose if "tow trailers long distances" was something I did regularly... but for the hopefully once-in-my-lifetime move it was fine, and the car is infinitely better for the other 99% of my driving than any truck.